6 Months Till 30
In fears of turning thirty, I have come up with a plan that will prevent me from falling into a depressed state, because of accomplishments and goals I won't be able to make but always thought I would have by the time I hit the big Three Zero.
My Plan: Since I can't be in a place that I thought I would be before my birthday, I decided by the inspiration of a fellow facebook friend, to concentrate on the smaller goals that I can accomplish before November 24, 2011, and be in the process of working towards the ones that I can't complete by then. I intend on recording them through this blog and on the day I was born reading each entry to help remind myself that yes I'm not at the place I'm have dreamt I would be but I am at a place that I can be happy with.
My Plan: Since I can't be in a place that I thought I would be before my birthday, I decided by the inspiration of a fellow facebook friend, to concentrate on the smaller goals that I can accomplish before November 24, 2011, and be in the process of working towards the ones that I can't complete by then. I intend on recording them through this blog and on the day I was born reading each entry to help remind myself that yes I'm not at the place I'm have dreamt I would be but I am at a place that I can be happy with.
Friday, May 13, 2011
#1. Spring Cleaning
My first goal is yes, Spring Cleaning. I know this doesn't sound much like a goal, but I thought what a good way to start. Two weekends ago, I got rid of a lot of things that I didn't need but for some reason was still holding onto. I also dusted, vacuumed, swept, mop and organized everything I possible can. It felt great. A new start with a super clean apartment. The only thing I couldn't seem to get rid of was my daughter's old clothes. She's nineteen months and I have 4 big plastic bins of her clothes, which are sorted my size. My thoughts at first was to give the salvation army all the clothes that she couldn't fit into anymore and that didn't hold any sentimental value. But as I was trying to figure out which ones to ditch I realized that all of them have some kind of sentimental value, either because it was the first onesy she threw up on, or it was the first pants she wore when she took her first walk, and to be honest it mostly came down to because she wore them. But perhaps me holding onto all her clothes is for a good reason that I don't know yet. Maybe in my future I'm set out to have another child for which these clothes are meant for. Who knows? But I can assure you that everything else is organized and has been condensed. I encourage everyone to do this. As non meaningful as it sounds, it actually felt good. It helped me to feel liberated and motivated to continue with this project. Since the spring cleaning, every time I walk into my home I smile, and look around at the great job that I have done.
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I have also been cleaning like crazy...it really does help make you feel lighter. As for the baby clothes it is a very hard process. I STILL have pieces I can't let go of. What I try to do is donate or sell or share the ones I am not attached to and I allow myself a little pile of the ones I simply can't part with. I hope to someday make some sort of life quilt with them. My friend in college had one made by her mom with all of the special things she had worn throughout life. It was amazing. Good luck and keep growing!
ReplyDeleteThank you. I love the Life Quilt idea.
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